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Strap-style harnesses, the original strap-ons, have to be literally strapped to your body. The brief-style Spareparts Tomboi Harness is smooth nylon and spandex, comes in red or black, and has an adjustable o-ring. For a boxer-style harness, the RodeoH Boxer Harness is similar, in cotton and spandex but with a boxer-brief cut. The RodeoH Brief Harness, an updated version of the first underwear-style strap-on harness to take off, is cotton and spandex and works with double-ended dildos. Some underwear-style strap-on harnesses are cut like boxers or briefs, with cuts that offer more coverage and gender-neutral or masculine-leaning colors. Generally, they lean more in a lingerie direction or more in a brief or boxer-brief direction.
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The flip is that they’re not adjustable, have more give (meaning: a dildo don’t necessarily stay where you put it), and expose less skin than their strappy counterparts. Want to pack under tight jeans? Underwear harness! Not sure whether you’re going to fuck later and want to be prepared but not presumptuous? Underwear harness! Laundry day? Underwear harness! Underwear harnesses are less finicky than strap harnesses, can make you feel physically closer because there’s only thin material between your bodies, and are often machine washable. Underwear-style harnesses - whatever their style - are comfortable, versatile, and wearable. (If you’re a trans woman, also check out Autostraddle’s guide to strap-on harnesses for trans women.) Let’s clamdive in. Plus, let’s not forget about aesthetic! What look makes you feel sexy? What makes you feel like you? The harnesses below are sorted for style, with lingerie and boxer/brief underwear-style harnesses, single and double strap harnesses, and harnesses for strap-on sex with body parts that aren’t your hips.
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How naked do you want to feel? And do straps with more exposed skin, or cloth with more sensitivity all over, feel more or less naked to you? How durable does it need to be? Is this a harness for the next year or two, or a harness for the rest of your life? If it’s fabric, the fabric might stretch and wear out faster but if you’re not excited to spend the time taking care of a leather harness, then it doesn’t matter how long it would theoretically last if you did. What toys do you want it to fit? Do you want to be able to swap out the o-ring that holds the dildo in place so you can use dildos of all sizes, or will an o-ring that’s just a little flexible be enough? Is your dildo of choice huge and heavy (straps are better), or smaller (compatible with any harness)?ĭo you want to be able to pack with your strap-on (i.e., wear it with a dildo under your clothes)? Do you want to be able to wear it under your clothes without a dildo? Underwear harnesses are often sleeker while strap harnesses are often bulkier - but if you’re packing under a fuller dress or roomier pants, you might not care. Who are you using it with? Just one person? Multiple people, spaced out over time? Multiple people in any given week? Nylon, spandex, and cotton harnesses are often machine washable and ready to go as soon as they air dry leather harnesses need to sit for a day post-cleaning. Who’s wearing it? Just one person? Multiple people? What shapes are the wearers’ bodies? Strap-based harnesses can be more flexible for different bodies, and you can often pair them with extenders to make them even more flexible for different sized wearers, or adjust the straps so the base of a dildo sits lower or higher (to some degree) according to where the wearers’ genitals are or what they look like. When you’re buying a harness, think about: Today, there are so many different types of strap-on harnesses - so how do you know which one is right for you? In dark times, sex shops had a single strap-on harness and it was leather and bulky and the exact same one all your exes had and that was pretty much it, unless you cut a hole in the front of your underwear and shoved a dildo through and fucked until everything came apart at the seams.
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